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Truffle Shuttle Express - Truffle line: 757-355-2162 |
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The Truffle Shuttle Express is
your group transportation for Hampton Roads
serving Virginia Beach, Chesapeake, and Norfolk, VA. We do corporate events, birthdays, bachelor & bachelorette parties, weddings, engagement parties, proms, airport transportation, concerts, wine festivals, bar crawls, and other social gatherings. If you have a group that needs to get
somewhere for ANY reason, let us know. The Truffle Shuttle accommodates 47
passengers. |
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Please check out the Truffle Shuttle Blog for current specials! |
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Please give us a call at 757-355-2162 to
discuss your plans. |
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or visit: www.truffleshuttle.com for more information |
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Bachelorette Parties |
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A bachelorette
party, hen party, hen do, or hen night, is a party held for a woman who is
about to be married. The term hen party or hen night is more common in the
UK, Ireland, and Australia, while the term bachelorette party is more common
in the United States. The term stagette is used in Canada. It may also be
referred to as a girls' night out or kitchen tea (South Africa in particular)
or other terms in other English-speaking countries. The bachelorette party is
modeled after the bachelor party, which is itself historically a dinner given
by the bridegroom to his friends shortly before his wedding. Despite its
reputation as "a sodden farewell to bachelor days" or "an
evening of debauchery," a bachelorette's party is a normal party, given
in honor of the bride-to-be, in the style that is common to that social
circle. |
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History |
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The bachelorette
party is consciously modeled after the centuries-old bachelor's party, which
is itself historically a dinner given by the bridegroom to his friends
shortly before his wedding. Although the practice of giving a party to honor
the bride-to-be goes back for centuries, in its modern form, the bachelorette
party may have begun during the sexual revolution of the 1960s. It was
uncommon until at least the mid-1980s, and the first book on planning
bachelorette parties wasn't published until 1998. Its cultural significance
is largely tied to concepts of gender equality. Compared to the bridal
shower, which helps the bride-to-be acquire possessions or a dowry and
reinforces traditional gender roles, a bachelorette party is an expression of
social and sexual freedom. Initially, parties in honor of the bride-to-be
that were labeled as bachelorette party often involved displays of sexual
freedom, such as trading intimate secrets, getting drunk, and enjoying male
strippers. Parties that honored the bride-to-be without these elements
avoided that label. Now the term is used for a wide variety of parties. The
term "hen party" comes from the henna plant which is part of
wedding traditions in North Africa, the Middle East, and parts of Asia. In
these traditions, henna tattoos are applied to the bride's hands on the night
before the wedding to protect her from the "evil eye". Henna is
believed to purify the bride and thus prevent her from being affected by the
influence of any evil agents. |
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Entertainment |
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Friends toast a
bride-to-be. Many different kinds of
entertainment are selected, depending on what the organizers think will best
please their guest of honor. While notions of a bachelorette party as a night
of drunken debauchery persist in some social circles, it is becoming widely
seen in America as an opportunity for female bonding. According to etiquette
expert Peggy Post, "Whatever entertainment is planned, it should not
embarrass, humiliate, or endanger the honoree or any of the guests."
When held in a private venue, such as the hostess's home, the party may take
any form that pleases the hostesses and honors the bride-to-be. Dinners and
cocktail parties, which provide comfortable opportunities for participants to
talk or to give intimate advice to the bride-to-be, are common. Other
hostesses choose a themed party, such as a "pamper party," with
guests indulging in spa treatments, or a cooking class. While proposing a
toast to the bride-to-be is common at most bachelorette parties, some center
on drinking games and host male strippers. Some parties take place in public
venues, such as a restaurant or bar. Some parties are bar tours. On occasion,
some bachelorette parties are organized as holidays to destinations such as
Las Vegas, Nevada or other party cities. Sometimes a daytime picnic or other
outing is organized in preference to the more common dinner party. It is
becoming popular, at least in the U.S. to have a more formal Tea style
Bachelorette party, especially in circles where female bonding is the goal of
the party. |
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Organization |
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Participants are
usually all women. Bridesmaids (if any) are typically invited, but any of the
bride's close women friends may be included. This party is typically hosted
by one or more members of the wedding party, although it is possible for any
friend to host a party in honor of the bride-to-be. Formally, a party in
honor of the bride-to-be is never hosted by the bride-to-be, although she may
participate in its planning. While it is normally the duty of a hostess to
pay for the entertainment she gives her guests, it is common in most
English-speaking countries for participants to share the costs of this event.
Whether the bride-to-be pays her share, or whether her share is divided
between other participants is something to be determined by the organizers
and the bride-to-be during the early stages of the planning process.
Participating in a bachelorette party is always optional, and many brides
decline these parties altogether. Neither bridesmaids nor other friends can
be required either to attend or to pay for any part of this party. Since it
is derived from a formal dinner, a bachelorette party is properly held in the
evening, usually about a week (or at least a few days) before the wedding,
and usually includes dinner, although alternative approaches are not
uncommon. |
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Commercial interests |
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Many companies
sell products aimed at the organizers of bachelorette parties, including
packs of themed games, pre-printed invitations, decorations, novelties, and
sex toys. Hundreds of websites provide ideas and suggestions for parties. |
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A more
traditional alternative is the bridesmaids luncheon, hosted by the bride
and/or her mother during the day, usually several days or a week before the
wedding. At a bridesmaids luncheon, the bride often presents a small gift to
each bridesmaid. If a significant aspect of the party is presenting small
gifts to the bride-to-be, then the event is properly called a bridal shower.
For the convenience of the bride-to-be, bridal showers are usually held
earlier than a bachelorette party. A stag and doe party, also called a
"Jack and Jill", "buck and doe" or "hag" (hen +
stag) party, is a similar party that includes men and women. It may combine
aspects of a drinking game with fundraising. |
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Bachelor Parties |
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A bachelor party
(USA, Canada and South Africa), also known as a stag party, stag night or
stag do (United States, Canada, UK, Ireland and New Zealand), a bull's party
(South Africa), and a buck's party or buck's night (Australia) is a party
held for a bachelor shortly before he enters marriage, to make the most of
his final opportunity to engage in activities a new partner might not approve
of, or merely to spend time with his male friends (who are often in his
wedding party afterwards). |
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Events |
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A bachelor party
may involve activities beyond the usual party and social gathering
ingredients (often drinking alcohol and gambling), such as going to a strip
club or hiring a stripper, and in some traditions more hazing-like tests and
pranks at the future groom's expense, which shows the whole thing is also a
rite of passage from bachelorhood (associated with an adolescent lifestyle,
often in the common past of most participants, e.g. in their student years)
to ""more responsible"" marital life. The task of
organizing a bachelor party is often traditionally assigned to a male sibling
of the bachelor or to the best man. Otherwise, any (close and/or reputedly
party-minded) male friend will organize it. The planned activities of a bachelor
party are traditionally kept secret from the groom. |
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Variations |
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A stag party in
MunichIt has also become common for a similar party to be held for the
bride-to-be. This is known as a bachelorette party or Hen party. Formally, a
party in honor of the bride-to-be is hosted by others. The expenditure,
however, needs to be carried out by the person entering into wedlock. Some
also chose instead to hold a so-called Stag and Doe party in the US or a hag
party or hag do in the UK (""hag"" being a combination of
the words ""hen"" and ""stag""), in
which both the bride and groom attend. |
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Australia |
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Buck's nights may
feature a stripper, topless waitresses and/or poker games. The groom's
friends often, after heavy drinking, subject the groom to various
humiliations, sometimes in public. These can include leaving him tied naked
to a pole or placing him on an airplane to a remote location. It has also
been quite known to start the humiliation at the beginning of the night by
dressing the buck up as a female or making him wear a
""mankini"". Due to the advent of cheap travel, many parties
may even travel to ""party"" destinations like the Gold
Coast, thanks to a multitude of clubs, strip clubs, hotels, beaches and
private ""bucks"" entertainment. |
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Denmark |
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In Denmark this
event is called Polterabend. The typical polterabend involves the group of
friends meeting for breakfast, activities such as paintball, go-karting or
kayak polo during the day, dinner at a restaurant, and a night on the town.
The last event sometimes, but not always, involves strippers. The groom-to-be
is often unaware of exactly what day the polterabend will take place. |
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France |
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In France, the
bachelor party is called ""enterrement de vie de garçon""
(for the groom-to-be), which literally means ""(the) burial of the
life as a boy"" or ""burial/funeral of the life as a
bachelor."" For women, ""enterrement de vie de jeune
fille"" (for the bride-to-be) translated as
""burial/funeral of the life as a young girl."" As in
English-speaking countries, such parties often feature heavy drinking and
various (although gentle) humiliations, and sometimes the presence of a
stripper. |
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Shooting in
BratislavaIn the United Kingdom it is now common for the party to last for
more than one evening, hence the increasing prevalence of the phrase
""stag weekend."" A spin off has been the growth of the
stag weekend industry in the UK with various companies taking over the
preparation of the event. Stag Do is used more in search engine searches than
stag weekends. In the UK, stag weekend trips are becoming mini-holidays with
the groups taking part in various day time activities as well as the expected
night out on the town. Popular locations include Brighton, Bournemouth,
Nottingham, Edinburgh, Blackpool, Newcastle upon Tyne and London With the
rise of budget airlines, some stags go abroad, with Krakow, Dublin and Riga
topping the list, followed by Prague, Amsterdam, Bratislava and Budapest.
Groups of friends attending weekends away in the UK and even into Europe with
their best friend leave home on a Friday and embrace two days of fun. The
groom who normally is called ""the Stag"" will have a
selection of tasks to complete on the stag weekend. Group activities might
include paintball, kart racing, poker parties, quiz machining, and clay
pigeon shooting. |
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United States and Canada |
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In the United
States, Las Vegas, South Beach Miami, Chicago, and New Orleans are popular
bachelor party destinations; they are also popular wedding locations.
Increasingly, ""destination bachelor parties"" are
replacing standard nights out, with Americans traveling to Montreal (Montreal
VIP has planned about 1,000 bachelor parties in the past year)and Mexico.
Bachelor parties in the US often entail the mass consumption of alcohol, the
hiring of a stripper and general rowdiness toward which the bride might not
have a positive reaction (especially since the bride is not typically among
the invitees). Increasingly, bachelor parties have come to symbolize the last
time when the groom is free of the influence of his new wife. Canadian cities
such as Montreal or Vancouver or Niagara Falls are popular stag party
destinations due to their large number of strip clubs with ""dance
contact"" (lap-dancing). Montreal in particular is popular for this
purpose with both Canadians and Americans alike. The female equivalent of a
stag party in Canada is often known as a ""stagette"",
""doe"" or ""bachelorette"" (in
Québec)." |
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